Talking CockRead­ers’ Digest sur­veys are skewed. Our fair coun­try rates lowly among the cour­te­ous cities of this world (bot­tom ten leh!) only because in our First World nation with First World ameni­ties, doors open and close them­selves and most pub­lic toi­lets have auto­matic flushes.

We don’t need to be cour­te­ous! We have machines to be cour­te­ous on our behalf! Seri­ous! You’ve been spo­ken to by those very cour­te­ous talk­ing lifts which very kindly not only tell you what floor your lift has stopped at, they also tell you if the door is open­ing or closing.

So mis­lead­ing, these surveys.

The Most Cour­te­ous Cities
1 New York, USA 80 per cent
2 Zurich, Switzer­land 77 per cent
3 Toronto, Canada 70 per cent
4 Berlin, Ger­many 68 per cent
San Paulo, Brazil 68 per cent
Zagreb, Croa­tia 68 per cent
7 Auck­land, New Zealand 67 per cent
War­saw, Poland 67 per cent
9 Mex­ico City, Mex­ico 65 per cent
10 Stock­holm, Swe­den 63 per cent
11 Budapest, Hun­gary 60 per cent
Madrid, Spain 60 per cent
Prague, Czech Repub­lic 60 per cent
Vienna, Aus­tria 60 per cent
15 Buenos Aires, Argentina 57 per cent
Johan­nes­burg, SA 57 per cent
Lis­bon, Por­tu­gal 57 per cent
Lon­don, UK 57 per cent
Paris, France 57 per cent

The Least Cour­te­ous Cities
20 Ams­ter­dam, Nether­lands 52 per cent
21 Helsinki, Fin­land 48 per cent
Manila, Philip­pines 48 per cent
23 Milan, Italy 47 per cent
Syd­ney, Aus­tralia 47 per cent
25 Bangkok, Thai­land 45 per cent
Hong Kong 45 per cent
Ljubl­jana, Slove­nia 45 per cent
28 Jakarta, Indone­sia 43 per cent
29 Taipei, Tai­wan 43 per cent
30 Moscow, Rus­sia 42 per cent
Sin­ga­pore 42 per cent
32 Seoul, South Korea 40 per cent
33 Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia 37 per cent
34 Bucharest, Roma­nia 35 per cent
35 Mum­bai, India 32 per cent

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  • loop

    I stayed near Ghim Moh bus inter­change & takes a bus from there to work daily. How­ever, very incon­sid­er­ate res­i­dents that are stay­ing 2–3 bus stops away tend to walk all the way here & rush up the bus to hog all the bus seats thus mak­ing less seats avail­able for res­i­dents stay­ing near to the bus interchange.

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  • KR

    I am vis­it­ing Sin­ga­pore for 6 months from the Caribbean and I have to agree that Sin­ga­pore­ans are quite rude. Even in my tem­po­rary and pro­fes­sion­al­work envi­ron­ment it took peo­ple between 2 and 8 weeks to start return­ing my greet­ings. The cus­tomers have specif­i­cally requested Chi­nese employ­ees or accused me of speak­ing to them in slang and requested Sin­ga­pore Eng­lish speak­ers to serve them, even though I have access to trans­la­tors. All this and my first lan­guage is actu­ally Eng­lish. I’m not sure whether it is racism or Nation­al­ism or chau­vin­ism that accounts for the atti­tude to peo­ple of non-Asian or for­eign descent. I’ve been to Europe, the US and latin Amer­ica for vaca­tion and work and I have never encoun­tered this level of open prej­u­dice before.

  • jacques

    Huh, could be you arent even aware of what you are talk­ing about. US is a coun­try where peo­ple are kind..Of course, if you are doing some­thing that doesnt deserve cour­tesy, you wont get it..

  • jacques

    French is a sophis­ti­cated cul­ture with a long civ­i­liza­tion, and gen­er­ally we are very kind and cour­te­ous, and we pride our­selves with our great cul­ture and one of the best fine lan­guage in this world. So, it should even be higher..Singapore or malaysia cant com­pare to that..

  • jacques

    Asians are among the worst peo­ple, they dont cher­ish for­eign friend­ship much and hate to talk to foreigners..i think thai­land is one of the out­stand­ing coun­try in Asia..Other than that would be indonesia..All the rest arent there yet, they need more humanity..

  • jacques

    Huh, could be you arent even aware of what you are talk­ing about. US is a coun­try where peo­ple are kind..Of course, if you are doing some­thing that doesnt deserve cour­tesy, you wont get it..

  • jacques

    French is a sophis­ti­cated cul­ture with a long civ­i­liza­tion, and gen­er­ally we are very kind and cour­te­ous, and we pride our­selves with our great cul­ture and one of the best fine lan­guage in this world. So, it should even be higher..Singapore or malaysia cant com­pare to that..

  • jacques

    Asians are among the worst peo­ple, they dont cher­ish for­eign friend­ship much and hate to talk to foreigners..i think thai­land is one of the out­stand­ing coun­try in Asia..Other than that would be indonesia..All the rest arent there yet, they need more humanity..

  • Dyosa

    There is no doubt that sin­ga­pore­ans are rude. I think they should have been in 35. They are racists too.

  • Faaaaaaaaaa

    u was in my place, if u need help, u should ask in the way we under­stand. why u want me to speak in ur lan­guage? iam not born to speak ur language.

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/HGYNSRU7HXKVNIWJNMODUIKWTQ Sasa

    Then if you cant speak Eng­lish at least use your body lan­guage in a way that it is not “ignor­ing” the per­son who ask you the ques­tion. Show to him/her POLITELY that you really dont under­stand him/her. AND DO SMILE. I wasnt born to speak Eng­lish either. It isnt my mother tongue, but GRACIOUSNESS is in my blood. Unlike ugly Sin­ga­pore­ans. I’m Asian too, by the way.

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/HGYNSRU7HXKVNIWJNMODUIKWTQ Sasa

    Despite almost liv­ing here for a decade due to irre­versible con­tracts and such, I still find it hard to appre­ci­ate the way Sin­ga­pore­ans inter­act with peo­ple. How appaling.

  • http://profiles.yahoo.com/u/HGYNSRU7HXKVNIWJNMODUIKWTQ Sasa

    Can you give us rea­sons why do you think so? You cant point out a con­clu­sion with­out proper ratio­nal­iza­tions and justifications.

    I think it is biased because the one who did the sur­vey must be of a Cau­casian descent, which explains why all the most cour­te­ous cities are Euro­peans or Amer­i­can cities. Per­haps they are more wel­comed there due to their skin colour. But say­ing that Sin­ga­pore­ans are rude isn’t rub­bish either as we all know a lot of for­eign­ers (Asians included), don’t find Sin­ga­pore­ans friendly. It is, in fact, the truth.

  • Dyosa

    Proof that Sin­ga­pore­ans are rude? You don’t have to go to Sina­ga­pore just to prove that. Just go online, maybe an online game. Sin­ga­pore­ans will surely bash your nation­al­ity and boast their bor­ing coun­try. Now go to Sin­ga­pore to expe­ri­ence more of their ugliness.

  • Man­ners

    sin­ga­pore­ans do not know they are rude and ungra­cious until they visit 1st world coun­tries and even 3rd world coun­tries eg Indone­sia.. Exam­ple of rude­ness not hold­ing lifts forr oth­ers, rush­ing into trains before oth­ers get out, not greet­ing peo­ple, plac­ing tis­sues to deprive those quev­ing up ear­lier of place, not giv­ing way to oth­ers turn­ing left or right or when dri­vers revers­ing half way they barge ahead. how­ever it is notice­able sin­ga­porean tried to appear polite infront of white vis­i­tors and being help­ful to them whilst ignor­ing others.

  • Lionelee1613

    I have lived and work in both Japan and Sin­ga­pore. And I say…Singaporeans are nice peo­ple but they are not polite. Japan­ese are polite but they’re not nice.

  • Jas­mine

    No won­der peo­ple think Sin­ga­pore­ans are rude,I am a sin­ga­porean myself and i think that is quite rude…

  • TANAHPEK

    CHINKAPOREANS,SINGAPORE chi­nese ARE SUCH LOSERS!!!!!

  • jen­nifer

    i really agree that sin­ga­pore­ans are rude.
    i am study­ing as a for­eigner at one of gov­ern­ment sec­ondary school in here for about 2 years .
    they are really racist. they like to boast about their own coun­try how­ever , if we try to say neg­a­tive things about their coun­try , they’ll angry and will say ” go back to your coun­try then ” i don’t think this is a good manner

  • http://twitter.com/skularatna Suran Kularatna

    Not all Asians are like this. I am a British born Sri Lankan, and I can say Sri Lankans are very, friendly, hos­pitable and cour­te­ous to any per­son, regard­less of which coun­try they are form.

  • Blah­blah

    it’s appalling btw

  • Blah­bah

    Rub­bish.. The peo­ple in France are gen­er­ally snob­bish and refuse to answer your ques­tions if you do not speak their lan­guage. They view them­seves as supe­rior to oth­ers and look down on other cul­tures. Kind my ass

  • Man­ners­Mat­ter

    Nation­al­ism is just a milder form of fas­cism, and yes I agree Sin­ga­pore­ans are the rud­est peo­ple I’ve met, WORSE than China, and that’s say­ing some­thing. Tai­wanese are mostly friendly, but get offended very eas­ily. I’m Malaysian liv­ing in Brunei, and I’m ashamed to say that  in terms of man­ners, Malaysia is far behind Brunei — on the roads of Brunei, you’ll prob­a­bly hear a honk once every 3 days or so, Malaysia…probably 30 honks everyday.

  • Vin

    I won­der why Roma­ni­ans are grouchy?

  • She­vaani

    Aren’t u being rude by call­ing them ugly with­out prop­erly get­ting to know them. Just because they are rude, it does not mean u have to be too…

  • She­vaani

    Very true… I am also a Sri Lankan and when­ever I meet other Sri Lankan’s they are always very polite. They also feel happy to meet another per­son who comes from where they have…

  • Hot Sugar Mommy

    I find the snob­bish French stereo­type very untrue. A stranger helped me with my lug­gage in the Parisian metro. Peo­ple on the streets approached us to ask if we needed direc­tions, before we even asked! Every sin­gle Euro­pean coun­try I’ve been to is much more polite than Sin­ga­pore. I actu­ally am ashamed of my own peo­ple. Think about it, why would Reader’s Digest lie?

  • Dumb

    And you really believe that crap survey..?

  • admin

    Kan-cheong peo­ple like always..

  • admin

    agree… LAZY BUM as hell!!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_WISSHP2T54MIMI6KNERQSVBKDE krisii

    I’ve been to both NY and Sin­ga­pore and I can tell you, ppl may think NYers seem cold and unap­proach­able but in actu­al­ity when help is needed they’d offer it a heart­beat. But sadly I can’t say the same for Sin­ga­pore, I’ve been liv­ing in Sin­ga­pore for 2 years  I never really liked nor dis­liked the peo­ple up until a few months ago. I’d been sick and fainted at Bedok MRT sta­tion,… no one came to help me. I was appalled and dis­gusted in a way, how can peo­ple be so cold as to offer no help what­so­ever to a girl in need? One school girl actu­ally had the nerve to take out a phone and start tak­ing pictures/video.  Tell me, what kind of dis­gust­ing behav­ior is this?

  • Crys­tal skyes

    I know Sin­ga­pore is like that and is one of the rea­sons why I dis­like liv­ing here.
    I was born in Sin­ga­pore (not by choice).
    The rude­ness or at least per­ceived impo­lite­ness is due to
     the fact of the stiff com­pe­ti­tion you face here. 
    Don’t get me wrong, all SUCCESSFUL Asian nations exhibit this “impo­lite­ness”, from my obser­va­tion.
    With com­pe­ti­tion, how can there be time for cour­tesy?
    Sorry, but that is sim­ply how SUCCESSFUL Asian coun­tries roll. 
    (e.g. Sin­ga­pore, Hong Kong, Tai­wan, South Korea & China)
    Unlike west­ern coun­tries, we were not so for­tu­nate to have the first-mover’s advan­tage.
    Our suc­cess was an unlikely one but it hap­pened due to our hard work.
    Why? Because we went to EXTREMES to accom­plish what we did.
    Not to insult west­ern coun­tries, but if your chil­dren came here, they will DIE as most chil­dren here have no time to “have a life”. 
    THEY DON’T PLAY GAMES OFTEN! Can you believe it?
    (I am a spe­cial case, my family’s finan­cial sit­u­a­tion allows me greater free­dom of time and etc.)
    In the name of pros­per­ity, believe you me that these coun­tries sac­ri­ficed a lot and only the peo­ple liv­ing there know what hard­ships that they face. 
    You will never under­stand till you face it yourself.

    Then again, this sur­vey is skewed as they don’t even men­tion how the hell they col­lect this “sur­vey”.
    We can­not naively believe that this report is 100% accurate/reliable.

  • Malini

    Recently came back to sin­ga­pore and it gave me a shock because I for­got how rude some peo­ple are, espe­cially the old ladies doing blue col­lar jobs. But then again doc­tors and GPs are also very rude and patro­n­is­ing. The old hokkien or Can­tonese peo­ple who cant com­mu­ni­cate in Eng­lish prop­erly will get frus­trated at you if you don’t under­stand them! And they’ll treat you like you’re dumb. I find more edu­cated peo­ple less rude, although it may vary.

  • Asian­gui­tarist

    Just make this sim­ple. Asian coun­tries that are highly devel­oped and suc­cess­ful, are usu­ally rude to for­eign­ers, even to them­selves when they have dis­putes. Why? ‘Cause they are being arro­gant for think­ing they are eco­nom­i­cally strong. How­ever, Asian coun­tries that have mediocre lifestyles are being cour­te­ous to oth­ers. I think hearts that could think and feel are more impor­tant, ’cause money can’t buy you hap­pi­ness. I’m a Viet­namese by the way.

  • Peo­ple who lived in Singapore

    I have been in Sin­ga­pore for 5 years and work­ing as pro­fes­sional. Based on my expe­ri­ence I have to admit that typ­i­cal Sin­ga­pore­ans are quite rude. I am not say­ing all of them, but most of them. They speak to the peo­ple based on the level of that peo­ple. If you are white skin or from West­ern and Europe they will be very nice. But if you look Asian and from the neigh­bor coun­tries , they way that they treat and speak are very unpro­fes­sional and rude.

    I am sorry to say that, but that’s true based on my experience.

  • Shaun­yvet­tethiara

    I just don’t com­pre­hend what Sin­ga­pore­ans speak. Their Eng­lish is totally not Eng­lish. I won­der how they go by travelling. 

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