iTunes’ party shuf­fle is play­ing a copy of: Work­ing Class Hero — John Lennon — Lennon Leg­end: The Very Best of John Lennon, of which I have the orig­i­nal CD and there­fore didn’t steal music.

I’ve had a string of bad days work and oth­er­wise. There were hours where I couldn’t make heads or tails of what I was sup­posed to be doing. But there were breaks, thank­fully, and one of the breaks was spent hav­ing lunch with my father.

Good thing my father’s the quiet sort, and to most other observers, inscrutably so. You can almost hear his brain tick­ing, but tick­ing about what, you don’t know.

I reckon the tick­ing these days is mostly about try­ing to fig­ure out how to con­trol his fine motor move­ments. I was mes­merised again by his deter­mined use of chop­sticks to pick up peanuts from a plate while we lunched at a Chi­nese restau­rant near the office we share. He zig-zagged the chop­sticks towards the plate, hov­er­ing over the plate for about half a minute before catch­ing a peanut. Then he shuf­fled the other peanuts on the plate while try­ing to get the chop­sticks to grip the one peanut. After another half minute, the pay­load secured, he zig-zagged the chop­sticks and peanut towards him­self, and juu­u­u­ust as the peanut was about to get to his mouth, his grip loos­ened and the peanut dropped onto the floor. And then he started all over again.

Thank­fully, the food we ordered arrived soon after, so he only had two attempts at the peanut pick­ing chop­sticks Olympics.

 
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  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/4146500 Bub­ble­mu­nche

    I hope I’ll have what your father has in old age: Dignity.

    I wish your father good health. Sorry to hear about his condition.

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/4146500 Bub­ble­mu­nche

    I hope I’ll have what your father has in old age: Dignity.

    I wish your father good health. Sorry to hear about his condition.

  • Anony­mous

    He prob­a­bly held your hand once upon a time when you couldn’t walk. Now you will do the same for him if/when his time comes. — graze

  • Anony­mous

    He prob­a­bly held your hand once upon a time when you couldn’t walk. Now you will do the same for him if/when his time comes. — graze

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/2535555 Feline Stalker

    it is always painful to see your par­ents aging…

    every­time i see my dad light­ing a cig­a­rette, i shud­der to think what it is doing to him.

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/2535555 Feline Stalker

    it is always painful to see your par­ents aging…

    every­time i see my dad light­ing a cig­a­rette, i shud­der to think what it is doing to him.

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/2588087 Jayaxe

    I’m actu­ally glad to know that your father does not seem to be dispir­ited by the con­di­tion, for depres­sion is one of the “worst aspects of the illness”.

    With the help of mod­ern med­i­cine, I believe he will still carry on a long, ful­fill­ing life. Espe­cially with that strong will instilled in him.

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/2588087 Jayaxe

    I’m actu­ally glad to know that your father does not seem to be dispir­ited by the con­di­tion, for depres­sion is one of the “worst aspects of the illness”.

    With the help of mod­ern med­i­cine, I believe he will still carry on a long, ful­fill­ing life. Espe­cially with that strong will instilled in him.

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/3915753 Woof!

    MM: the other com­menters couldnt have expressed my sen­ti­ments better..

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/3915753 Woof!

    MM: the other com­menters couldnt have expressed my sen­ti­ments better..

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